Mindfulness for Parents at Harvard-Westlake

Parenting is one of the most complex and rewarding roles we take on.

The challenges can feel overwhelming. There’s so much advice, so many perspectives, and yet at the heart of it all is a simple truth: to raise well-adjusted kids, we need clarity within ourselves. We need life skills that support resilience, calm, and thoughtful presence.

That’s where mindfulness comes in.

Mindfulness is the practice of training our attention. It helps us develop awareness, emotional regulation, focus, and the ability to respond — rather than react — in our relationships.

Mindfulness isn’t a parenting method. It’s not a style. It’s a way of being more present, more curious, and more aware of what’s happening within us and around us. From that place, we can use any parenting tools or approaches with more wisdom and ease.

The Harvard-Westlake Parents Mindfulness Club was created to give parents a calm and supportive space to learn and practice mindfulness together. We offer both Zoom and in-person sessions led by experienced teachers like Brian Shiers and Natalie Bell (from UCLA’s Mindfulness Awareness Research Center), teachers from local studios like Unplugged, or through highly rated platforms like Calm, Insight Timer, and Mindvalley.

We live in a world that constantly pulls us away from the present — toward the past or into the future. Mindfulness helps us come back to now, so we can be more present with our families, our children, and ourselves.

As part of our Harvard-Westlake community, we’ll explore how to bring more awareness into our daily lives — and hopefully, become more patient, kind, and grounded parents. When we grow, our children grow with us.

We’ll explore mindfulness through practices like:

    • Mindfulness and Sports Performance
    • The Art & Science of Mindful Parenting
    • Cultivating Creativity with Mindfulness
    • The Art of Tea
    • Mindful Walking
    • Mindful Eating
    • Mindful Communication Series:
        • Deep Listening (Attuned Empathic Modeling)
        • The Power of Validation in Disagreements
        • Communication using “DEAR-MAN” skills
        • Reducing Conflict through Dialectical Thinking

Sessions will be offered several times throughout the month, with options like Mindful Mondays, Well-being Wednesdays, and Feel Good Fridays to make it easier for more families to join.

Each class may include guided practice, reflection, breakout discussions, and time for connection. If we’re online, we’ll open the Zoom room early so parents can check in and build community.

Mindfulness is a skill we carry with us throughout life.

And practicing with other HW parents is a gift — a way to connect, build friendships, and support each other while our kids thrive.

Kalika Yap Meditation

A little about me

People often ask if I’m a mindfulness expert. I like to think of myself as a lifelong student with a deep passion for the mindful arts.

Mindfulness has helped me through parenting, running businesses, coaching, writing, and all the messiness and beauty of everyday life.

I practice Chado (the Japanese tea ceremony), Tao Calligraphy, and Ikebana (Japanese flower arranging). These practices continue to ground and inspire me.

I’ve trained in Advanced Transcendental Meditation, completed the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center’s six-week course, and attend a weeklong silent retreat at Spirit Rock every year.

And I recently graduated from the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Training Program at UC Berkeley (February 2025) — a two-year program that’s helped me deepen my practice and learn how to share mindfulness with others more effectively.

It’s a joy to bring what I’ve learned to our Harvard-Westlake parent community.

If there’s anything I can do to help you feel more supported in your parenting or mindfulness practice, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Warmly,

Kalika Yap
Co-Chair, Harvard-Westlake Parents Mindfulness Club
Harvard-Westlake Parent
Kailani Yap, Class of ’24
Malia Yap, Class of ’26

What you can learn from us

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Mindfulness Through Focusing on the Breath

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Mindfulness Through Sound

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Neuroscience of Mindfulness

Harvard-Westlake Parents Mindfulness Club Through Walking

Meditation & Mantra

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